Sex can be very pleasurable. There is the romantic one, full of caresses and affection and the wild one where instincts predominate and true desires come out. It is in the latter that facefucking can be included. Or what it literally means, fucking a person’s face.
This is a type of practice that mainly takes place within BDSM. Mainly because the man, in this case, has an important dominating role, in front of his sexual partner who simply stands still with his mouth open. The female version can be done when she is the one sitting on her partner’s face to enjoy intense oral sex. In this case it would be the woman who has the dominant role.
Facefucking for everyone?
Like other sexual practices, this one may or may not be liked. The truth is that it is an experience that can be somewhat hard. Especially because when it is portrayed in porn, the woman who practices it ends up with watery eyes and runny make-up. So, it is understandable that it is not very attractive for some people.
Besides, facefucking, together with gagging and deep throat if it is not well prepared, can cause nausea as a natural reflex act of the human body. But, for those who enjoy it, it is an incredible sensation that intensifies the pleasure.
This is because it is a well lubricated area with a great capacity to stimulate the penis. As long as the teeth are not involved. In that case it can change from very pleasant to very painful, and nobody wants that.
Because facefucking is not only enjoyed by men, but also by the people with whom they practice it. It is a real empowerment to feel that you are able to give such pleasure to your sexual partner, and it is often a kind of challenge and effort to be able to do so.
Tips to enjoy it
In order to enjoy a good facefucking there are several things that are important to take into account so that there are no unpleasant surprises afterwards. Although good, there are some who are excited by vomiting, also known as emetophilia, so perhaps it is a good option to provoke them, in this case.
Before
- The first thing is to talk about it, or at least be sure that both parties want to try and facefuck first.
- Practice, with a dildo, dildo or vibrator beforehand. But you can also do it with a real penis directly. In this way the muscles get used to adapting and avoiding nausea or gag reflexes.
- Some people practice with the back of a toothbrush, two or three times a week to avoid the feeling of gagging when something brushes against the bell area and the deepest part of the tongue.
- Relaxing and being comfortable is important for this sexual practice, as is good oral hygiene.
During
- Do not do it freshly eaten.
- Use lubricant or if it is enough with the saliva so that everything flows as it should.
- Important to remember that it is not about sucking or giving a blow job. It is simply that it is done as in the penetration but in the mouth. So it is recommended to avoid making movements with the tongue or sucking because then the gagging or vomiting will increase.
- Breathing only through the nose while facefucking.
- If there is any gagging, everyone is calm, nothing happens, it usually helps to stimulate the penis even more. So you can take advantage to stop for a second, take a breath and come back.
- And if you run? It is a possibility so you have to be prepared and decide whether to swallow or step aside and spit.
- The posture is also important. Normally the most popular are on all fours, she lying on her back in bed and he on it or kneeling and standing. But you can try them with the ones you want.
Alone or in company?
- Several erotic toys can be used for facefucking. Besides the lubricants or dildos , already mentioned above, there are others that help to keep the mouth open.
- Use your hands. During this practice the hands are free to touch the partner’s bottom. The chest and even stimulate the prostate, introducing a finger through the anus.
- It can be accompanied by other preliminaries such as Humming (emitting vibrations with the mouth during oral sex to stimulate the genital area). Sucking or licking the eggs too (remembering the tea bagging technique).
But without a doubt the main thing is to feel like trying it. Go little by little the first few times. Check how you feel and how far you are able to go and feel each one.