Most people’s idyllic dream, multiple orgasms. To reach a climax over and over again. To experience that extreme feeling of pleasure that runs through the body again and again with hardly any rest. Is it a question of myth or reality? Do they exist beyond adult movies?
Prolonging, intensifying and duplicating everything that goes into achieving an orgasm is something most people want. Multiple orgasms, or as they also know multi orgasms, are specifically about that. Reducing the waiting time between one and the other, overcoming exhaustion and being able to enjoy more.
Dictionary of pleasure
Before going deeper into the subject, it is necessary to be clear about a couple of concepts:
- Unique orgasms: the clearest, product of pleasure.
- Multiple orgasms or poly-orgasmia: It is about reproducing the previous ones during the same sexual encounter, with small breaks in the sexual response between them, but not so with the stimulation and sexual activity.
- Chained or multiorgasmic orgasms: All those that are achieved without rest, one after the other, like a gust. Some even talk about six to twelve orgasms in a row. Without letting the stimulation and excitement drop to keep them going.
- Refractory period: This refers to the “rest time” between each single orgasm and varies from person to person.
Can only women have multiple orgasms?
Many experts have commented on the supposed ease of the female gender to enjoy them. This is why it has generated envy on the part of the male sector.
The thing is not very misguided, but not because of the fact that power means that all women have multiple orgasms in all sexual relations they have. Moreover, some are even unable for various reasons to enjoy even a single orgasm. This is known as anorgasmia.
As much as abundance are two issues that have generated many opinions, beliefs and prejudices. Sometimes so many, that they even affect one’s own pleasure. Some experts say that you can have four or five orgasms, but for that you need certain conditions.
It is true that women have an easier time enjoying multiple orgasms but men can also achieve them. Everyone can do things to make it happen more easily.
So how do we get them?
I wish there was a magic formula, a few steps to follow that would ensure achieving the desired multiple orgasms with minimal waiting time between them. There is only one list of tips, which are explained below to make it easier to enjoy them.
- Self-knowledge. The first and foremost thing is to experiment with oneself. See how each part of the body feels, discover the best way to stimulate the most sensitive points. The ideal rhythm, intensity and depth to achieve the excitement.
- Energy, comfort and relaxation. Forgetting worries, expectations, embarrassments and prejudices. Just focus on enjoying, letting yourself go. We also recommend trying it after a good rest and without any substance that reduces physical capacities.
- Endure, innovate and persist. If you already know what makes an orgasm come, it is a matter of taking advantage of it and trying new complementary things. Avoid routine and don’t stop after reaching a climax at first.
- Kegel exercises. If you have the muscles of the pelvic area well exercised, they help to maintain the excitement and keep the pleasure. In the case of the penis, if you manage to reach orgasm without ejaculating, congratulations, multiple orgasms are near.
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- Lengthen the preliminaries. Increase sexual tension, intensify the excitement so that the desire increases. The game, the temptation is the key to improve the sensation afterwards.
- After the first one leave a second rest. The human body is not a perfect machine but almost. Both male and female genitals become ultra-sensitive when they reach a climax. So to achieve multiple orgasms it is recommended to leave them free for a moment after the first orgasm. You can then go on to stimulate another erogenous zone of the body. In the well-known Friends series, Monica’s character mentions up to seven that can be combined. After that second one, continue and go for the second one.
- Patience. This is a matter of taking some time, it won’t happen by magic or from one day to the next. But, the practice, the effort and the path to follow to reach the goal of multiple orgasms is a lot of fun. So, what’s the problem?
- Fitness. Sex itself is a physical exercise, so if your muscles and body are better prepared, you’ll have more stamina to prolong your sexual experiences. Plus, they say women can even have an orgasm while they’re exercising. Known as the choreorgasm, it will be time to test it, practice it, and see if it is possible.