Nowadays there are many new terms… Each one to state one of the different ways of expressing oneself as an individual, one’s tastes, opinions and, why not, also one’s sexuality. It is also true that there are words that are not always so pleasant to hear or even so familiar. For example, would you know what a sissy is?
It is no news that some people are born into bodies that do not correspond to their gender identity and therefore go in search of what feels good, what feels right. In addition, they need to express themselves in one way or another to find the one that best suits their characteristics.
But what is a sissy?
From there, it is time to explain what a sissy is. A sissy is essentially a man who adopts feminine behaviours or performs activities that are stereotypically “for women”.
For example, wearing make-up – even if it is light, wearing feminine clothes and accessories, tone of voice, feminine behaviours or even participating in cleaning services, acting as a housewife, and so on. Things that for a long time have been considered as women’s exclusive role.
The good Sissy in the BDSM or fetish context
If on the one hand a sissy can be something difficult to describe because of all the ambiguities that the term entails, on the other hand within BDSM or the world of fetishism the roles are much clearer: a sissy is a feminine man who will assume the role of submissive to a dominant figure (male or female).
Among all the roles that are explored within bdsm, what cannot be missed for a sissy is servility. In this figure the person has to be willing to satisfy their partner, either by wearing the clothes of a servant, or even dressing up as a doll, ready for enjoyment.
So how to be a good sissy after all?
The truth is that tips on how to be a powerful sissy are still not that popular on the Internet. So, to make you feel feminine, beautiful and seductive here are some tips:
1- Just be: a simple but complex thing to do
The first step to being a beautiful sissy is to really embrace what it means to be one. That is, embrace your femininity, your willingness to express yourself that way. Embrace your essence. It seems obvious, but it’s not. Opening up to express yourself requires a big push.
2- Be yourself
No matter what kind of life you lead, whether you are only feminine in the way you are or you like to dress like a woman in public, the most important thing is to explore all your desires and enjoy them. Always be authentic. Knowing yourself, understanding yourself as you are. Consider that people often judge, and whether you are an authentic person or not, there will always be value judgments. Therefore, why deprive yourself when you can open up and be happy?
3- Explore your femininity
There are many brands, trends and facets of the feminine universe to be discovered. Due to technology, there are plenty of glamorous make-up tutorials, stylish hairstyles to do at home or tips on how to coordinate your looks to make the best out of them. Take advantage of them all and explore your femininity to the fullest.
4- Making you feel sexy
Feminine clothes, up-to-date waxing, necklaces, earrings, bracelets, provocative lingerie… use and abuse anything that makes you feel super sexy, confident and powerful.
There’s nothing better than looking in the mirror and loving what you see.
A good sissy in BDSM
The shaping of a good sissy maid is based on a number of things, so let’s go over some key points to start with:
– A good sissy is very well educated
– Knows that their Mistress sets all the rules
– Always willing to please their master
– Is humble and kind
– A good sissy is grateful to their master
– Always presents herself well and is cordial
-Takes good care of her appearance and always wears make-up, painted nails and a good perfume
-She shows how hot she is by using all the sex toys proposed by him/her
-They want all the pleasure but, above all, they know they must give pleasure.
It doesn’t take much to be a good sissy, the most important part is to explore femininity to the fullest, find out what are the best stimuli, explore all strengths and if it is in the bdsm field, be a naughty and compliant servant.
The important thing is always to be yourself and be free. Surround with people who love you for who you are, and enjoy all the nuances of your sexuality. Whatever the case, whether full time or part time, feeling like a powerful sissy should be the goal. Finding the ideal way to feel identified and in accordance with one’s own needs, experiences, tastes and a thousand other possibilities.