Pegging, greek, anilingus, black kiss… Nowadays there are many names referring to anal sex. But what is known about this practice, what are the myths about anal sex, and what are the truths? The truth is that it is a subject that has been taboo for most people for many years.
Prejudices and rumors that have fed hundreds of myths about anal sex throughout history. And the fact is that already in ancient Greece it was practiced and enjoyed (hence one of the names it receives). But with the development of societies and the passing of the years its practice has been relegated to the most absolute intimacy. Generating fear and rejection and even being banned in some areas.
For this reason, the following are the most popular myths about anal sex. So that everyone who wants to enjoy it can enjoy it without worries.
Anal sex myths
How much information is there about this practice? What is most often said about anal sex? Who more and who less has heard some of these phrases at some time in his life.
- Anal sex is only practiced by homosexuals.
- The first time always hurts.
- Men want it more than women. They are unable to enjoy it.
- It does not give as much pleasure as it does to provoke orgasms.
- Transmits more infections than other practices, such as AIDS.
- It is dirty and unpleasant.
- Will be more pleasurable than vaginal sex.
- It produces hemorrhoids.
- The men who practice it are homosexuals.
- It is not made for that as it does not dilate and lubricate like the vagina.
- Men cannot self-stimulate on their own.
There are still many more rumors that circulate by word of mouth. Many of which arise, above all, from fear and ignorance. Despite the fact that it has been practiced for centuries, both in public and clandestinely, there are still those who do not know about it.
Perhaps the most popular myth is the first one. Especially for the male gender. Believing that by enjoying anal sex, it is indispensable to have that sexual orientation and even believing that they can become less masculine because of it? So many unnecessary worries and nerves that may have prevented so many orgasms and pleasure.
Intensifying pleasure
The first thing to decide to perform this sexual practice and to be able to enjoy it is to desire it and, of course, to be calm. In addition to having a partner (a sexual partner or a sex toy) with whom you can have anal sex, there are some tips to keep in mind, especially if it is the first time (as in all sexual practices) to make it a success.
Biological issues
In the anal area, the body has thousands of nerve endings capable of producing intense pleasure. But they need to be stimulated correctly.
On the one hand, men have the prostate, a gland responsible for producing seminal fluid, located below the bladder and accessible only through the anus. A very sensitive point that is also known as the male G-spot.
Anal sex. Alone or in company?
It is a sensitive area with little natural lubrication, so it should be helped a little with saliva or a water-based lubricant. After which you can continue, stimulating the area, with the tongue (with a black kiss) or with the fingers little by little. Then proceed to insert a finger, two fingers, the penis, a dildo, a vibrator, an anal plug…
There are even harnesses that help to better hold the dildos and to facilitate and deepen penetrations, both vaginal and anal to taste.
Hygiene
For better or worse, it is a sensitive and delicate area. That is why maintaining hygiene is essential. Avoid eating abundantly before practicing anal sex, make an enema to avoid an unpleasant experience. It is also advisable to use a condom to avoid infections.
All for one and one for all
Like other sexual practices, anal sex does not have to be attractive and pleasurable for everyone. Variety is the spice of life and in order to enjoy it, the first thing to do is communication and consensus. Although to bring up the subject in a couple can be a somewhat controversial issue.
Postures for anal sex
As with any activity, posture matters a lot. It is not the same to have sex in the missionary position on a bed, than on all fours, while touching your nose and making circles with your head. The best positions to enjoy anal sex are undoubtedly, on all fours or doggy style, the famous spoon, the “sailboat” or the amazon among others.
In the end there are many ways to be able to enjoy all this quietly. In addition to all the information that can be found on the internet about the subject. But, as with everything, the best and most important thing is to experience in your own skin and see what it feels like. Taste, touch, feel and enjoy, without getting carried away by so many myths and letting yourself be carried away by pleasure. To get to know yourself better and what you like best, in bed and out of it.