Looking to add a little sparkle to your escort sex life over the festive period? With the most wonderful time of the year upon us, it also means it’s incredibly busy for escorts and those within the adult industry. Knowing how to keep things interesting, not only for your clients, but also for yourself is key over December. When you’re back to back busy, sex can sometimes feel a little monotonous, but with a little Christmas magic and a few bright ideas, you can keep things exciting and fresh to ensure you’re enjoying your work just as much as your clients.
As we always say, authenticity is key and if you’re passionate about your work, your customers will come back for more in the New Year! Here are Skokka’s top tips on spicing up sex this December.
Santa’s Little Helper
That’s right, we’re talking about the best helping hand there is – sex toys. Investing in these is a really easy way to ensure you climax during sex, resulting in a realistic and pleasurable experience for all involved! Sex toys really are the ultimate game-changer for escorts looking for better sex and to elevate their service with something extra. There are so many sex toys to choose from, so our advice is to be selfish and find the toy most appropriate for you!
From vibrators, to nipple clamps, edible underwear to anal beads, the choice is endless. They’re also fantastic icebreakers to use with new clients. On that note, why not put a few on your wish list for clients to surprise you with?
Naughty or Nice?
Christmas is a time for imagination and sprinkle of magic! Why not make your clients’ wildest fantasies come true and give the gift of role play? It’s a great way to spice up escort sex and enables you to take control of any scenario completely! Why not channel your inner Mrs. Claus and let your client know exactly where he stands? Maybe a playful and mischievous fairy is more your style? It doesn’t have to be Christmas related either, any form of roleplay helps to add flair and differentiate your services from others. Adding a touch of fantasy is fun for all involved around the festivities. Be sure to bring your candy cane stockings and magic wand…
Fun and Games
At Christmas, games are always favoured! Add a little competitiveness to escort sex this December with a sexy game of ‘would you rather’, ‘truth, dare or strip’ will get you and your client feeling festively frisky! Introducing plenty of fun and laughter into your sessions ensures genuine connection, which will set you apart from other escorts, meaning a better financial investment long term. Remember, the best connections are always formed with a genuine understanding of what each other likes, so a game is a great way to establish preferences in the moment.
Erotic Massage
An erotic massage at Christmas is the ultimate gift of relaxation and intimacy. Ask your client to give you a sensual massage, and you can return the favour. This will allow you to unwind and connect through communication and touch, enabling you both to feel relaxed so that the real magic can happen later in the evening.
Remember, the build up to sex is very important, so take the time to tell your client where to touch you and what feels good, and encourage them to do the same. Slow and deliberate strokes will ease tension and build anticipation for the rest of the evening. Why not use festive scents, like cinnamon, vanilla or peppermint oils to add a seasonal twist to the experience?
Connection at Christmas
For many, the holidays are actually a very lonely time of year. As an escort, you often double as a confidant and companion. In fact, many clients are looking for a genuine connection and someone to talk to, especially over the festive period. Understanding someone on a deeper level can lead to better sex all round. So, be prepared to listen and try your best to take note of what your clients say to show attentiveness. The emotional connection is as important as the physical, and Christmas is the perfect time to show your clients they’re on your nice list. It’ll fare you well in the long term!
Self-Care is Sexy
Good sex starts with how you feel about yourself. If you feel pampered and confident, escort sex will be so much better for you! With the long working hours, it’s essential that you set time aside for yourself to relax and unwind. Self-care looks different to each person, so our advice is to do whatever brings you comfort and joy. This could be a spa day, a shopping trip, a meal at your favourite restaurant, perhaps a movie night under a blanket? Remember, the better you feel, the more successful you’ll be at your job!
Christmas Specials
Ambiance is everything for effective intimacy and over Christmas, it’s the perfect excuse to indulge in the festive atmosphere. Why not decorate your space with twinkling lights and some cinnamon-scented candles. Cosy environments can put your client at ease straight away, it’ll also ensure you feel calm and collected, resulting in better sex. The right setting makes clients feel extra special and will have them in the holiday spirit in no time…
Talking of Christmas specials, why not make your clients feel like they’re unwrapping a present they’ll never forget! Add that Christmas sparkle to your services, whether you dress to impress in beautiful red lacy underwear, or introduce a little temperature play when it’s cold outside, a sexy festive gesture won’t go unnoticed, trust us!
More Tips For Escorts
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