If you’re planning on meeting an escort for the first time, there is a certain etiquette that must be upheld. Although an exciting and thrilling experience awaits, knowing how to behave will make the experience more enjoyable for both of you. Here, our teams take a closer look at the essential do’s and don’ts to ensure a smooth and pleasurable encounter with your chosen escort.
Do Your Research
Before you even book an appointment, take the time to read an escort’s profile thoroughly. This helps you understand their services, rates, and any special requests they might have or can help to facilitate. Usually, what you see in their profile is exactly what they offer, but if you have any questions, reach out and ask politely before making a booking. Respect their boundaries and preferences – consent and communication are crucial to a great experience and the safety of all involved.
Be Transparent and on Time
Time is valuable, and showing up late, or even too early can start things off on the wrong foot. Escorts have tight schedules, and being punctuality shows that you respect their time and work. If something unavoidable comes up, let them know as soon as possible. Ghosting or last-minute cancellations without a good reason is a major no-no. Not only is it extremely rude, it wastes time and will likely get you blacklisted from seeing them again.
Hygiene Matters Most
Meeting an escort should be thought of as an intimate date. You would never show up to a first date unkempt, so don’t do it here either. Shower before your appointment, brush your teeth, and wear fresh clothes. No one enjoys an encounter with someone who smells like they just ran a marathon. Some escorts even provide showers before your session, so if they offer, take them up on it if necessary. Hygiene is also extremely important for safety purposes, so by practicing this before your experience, you put your escort’s mind at ease and you’ll be confident that you’re feeling fresh!
Respect the Agreed-Upon Limits
Escorts are professionals, and they set clear boundaries for a reason. If they say something is off-limits, it’s not up for negotiation. Don’t try to pressure them into something they don’t offer, and always follow their lead during your time together. If you’re not sure about something, asking politely is always better than assuming.
Pay Promptly and Respectfully
To avoid any awkwardness, have the agreed-upon amount ready in whatever payment method they prefer and hand this over at the very beginning of the appointment. This way, you can get on to enjoying your experience without the need to bring up money talk. Remember, the price agreed upon is what you should bring with you; never try to haggle over rates as this is a professional service and doing so is a huge red flag.
Natural Conversation
Yes, you’re meeting an escort for a service, but that doesn’t mean you can’t have natural conversation. Our advice would be to let any insecurities go and find out a little about what’s to come, or what they enjoy most about their job etc. Being polite and engaging in respectful, lighthearted conversation, will only ease the mood, work to enhance your experience and lessen any ‘transactional’ stigma you may feel.
Follow Their Lead During the Experience
Remember, while you may be new to this, escorts are pros. They know how to create a bespoke, comfortable and pleasurable experience, so trust them to guide the session. If you have preferences, communicate them respectfully, but don’t try to take control of the situation in a way that disregards their expertise or boundaries.
Always Respect Privacy and Discretion
Privacy goes both ways. Just as you don’t want your personal details shared, an escort doesn’t want theirs leaked either. Never ask for personal details like real names, addresses, or social media handles. Likewise, taking photos or recording without permission is never permitted. Our advice would be to discuss what to expect before your session, so that you are fully aligned on the day you meet up.
Know When to Say Goodbye
When your booked time is up, be respectful and don’t linger. Escorts have schedules to keep, and overstaying can make things awkward. If you’d love to see them again, a polite discussion about future bookings is the way to go. But don’t push for extra time unless they have time and you have the funds to pay for it.
While tipping isn’t mandatory, it’s always appreciated. If you had a brilliant time and want to show extra gratitude, a small gesture can go a long way. Even if you don’t tip, a simple “thank you” and genuine appreciation can leave a lasting positive impression.
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Meeting an escort for the first time should be a smooth, respectful, and enjoyable experience for all involved. By following these simple etiquette rules, you ensure a positive encounter and open the door for potential future meetings!
At Skokka, we’re all about making connections, and treating others with respect is at the core of every great experience. Are you ready to meet someone amazing? Browse profiles in your area today. For more exclusive updates and information about our platform, don’t forget to follow us on our X page.
