Does a woman lose the right to a healthy sexual life when she becomes a mother? Are mothers not sexual beings? And if they are, is it wrong to have an active sexual life, work as a companion, and seek compensation for it? There is harsh judgment directed at women who combine motherhood with the profession of being a companion.
Apparently, from a social and legal perspective, these two aspects are considered irreconcilable.
It all boils down to morality and good manners. Being a companion seems to disqualify someone in terms of morality. This is precisely the treatment that women with children receive from those who consider themselves “morally superior,” referring to those who have the power to dictate laws and enforce them.
These individuals question the ability of mothers to raise their children, yet in their free time, seek comfort and satisfy their desires between the sheets of the very women they criticize—women who practice a profession as dignified as any other.
Though we emphasize ironically, can you lose custody of your children if the father discovers you are a companion?
This is a question frequently asked in this profession, and it’s important to note the following: The fact that one parent engages in prostitution is not a barrier to obtaining custody of minors if it is proven that they take good care of their children and do not shirk their parental responsibilities. Nevertheless, it is advisable to consult the laws of the country you are in. In the world of escort mothers, concern about this issue is constant.
They only seek to ensure that their children have everything they need, wanting to enjoy quality time together and provide comfort to their children while continuing to practice their profession.
Care for your children
Valuable advice. Firstly, it is crucial not to attend to clients in the same place where your children live. Keep your phone out of their reach, preventing them from accessing client contacts or seeing photos related to your work.
Use a device exclusively for work or implement passwords on applications.
Avoid discussing details of your work in their presence: Even if you think they don’t understand or are distracted.
Never mention your children, especially girls, to your male clients. It’s impossible to know when you’re dealing with someone with inappropriate intentions.
Don’t leave them alone while you work: as this can be interpreted as abandonment depending on the country you are in.
Should I talk about my profession with my children?
The first question to ask is: Are your children old enough to understand what sexuality is? Explaining something beyond their comprehension is not productive.
Another consideration is the duration of your career in this profession. If it’s temporary, it may not be necessary to worry your children with this information unless you plan to continue the activity for a long period, increasing the risk of them discovering it from other sources. It’s always better for the mother to share this perspective, as she is directly involved, than to allow external third parties to judge the situation without fully understanding it.
This, of course, if your children are of the appropriate age. Avoid an approach that generates pity in them; instead, speak proudly about your work, an honest and legal occupation that supports your family and provides the comfort they need.
Finally, if you don’t feel comfortable discussing the topic, it’s perfectly acceptable not to. Rather than raising doubts, it’s preferable that your children don’t know. Any family conversation should be handled with care.
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