Female pleasure is a great mystery even to most women. With the penis, on the other hand, it is much more visible when it is excited and when it has an orgasm and reaches a climax, ejaculating semen. A guide is sometimes needed in the case of the female anatomy. What is the best way to make it enjoyable? How to achieve female ejaculation or squirting? How to distinguish if it is fake? There are many questions and few answers and information known.
What’s squirting?
It is commonly said to be wet when the vulva begins to become aroused. Because the female genitals have a natural lubrication that helps make penetration more pleasant and fluid. But once an orgasm is reached, certain fluids are also secreted. Most of the time it is practically unnoticeable, but other times it is done “in spurts”. The latter is known as squirt. A surprise that accompanies the climax splashing walls and wetting the sheets in abundance. A colourless and most of the time odourless liquid that comes out under pressure. Depending on each person it can be more or less and even reach different distances.
That is why it is said that women can run and squirt. It is produced by the Skene glands located near the urethra and close to the vagina. It shows a great and correct stimulation on the female G-spot. This is located on the inner vaginal wall. Can also be accessed to stimulate it with penetration. Although not all women are able to do this, at least consciously. Therefore, the first time it happens in an intimate encounter often causes surprise, excitement and even disgust. That’s why many women are a little afraid to have it for fear of their sexual partner’s reaction.
Climax or taboo?
The information known about this squirt phenomenon is quite scarce. That if it is urine, that if all women get it and if some do not, it is rare, that if it comes out when the climax is reached…
Many are the myths that surround it, but the majority who experience it, repeat. It creates an atmosphere of trust, eroticism, passion and pleasure difficult to achieve otherwise. Even in the adult sector there is a lot of demand. Very popular categories in porn sites, escorts who offer it as a service in sites like Skokka and clients who look for it exclusively.
The funny thing is that it seems that they are the ones that show more curiosity. It is a different pleasure than the usual and known. Something you want to achieve and experience. But how to get the squirting and with whom?
When it’s a taboo subject at least out loud because it’s associated with being “dirty” and even “unpleasant” socially. Is beacause of this reason. In some countries was even banned and vetoed.
How to reach it?
The big question for many. Especially since, they say, once you’ve done it once, it’s relatively easy to “control” it and be able to do it the next few times. The main tips to get them are several:
- Comfort and relaxation. No fears, no complexes, no fears. Just let yourself go and enjoy.
- Prepare the environment. Avoid staining what you don’t want, be alone so you can clean or make all the noise you want without fear of being heard. That’s why we usually use towels and even get directly into the shower or bathtub to wet everything without problems.
- Correct stimulation of the G-spot and the clitoris. Some people reach the squirting with the shower jet, exerting the right pressure. Others with the help of penetration. But it can also come from oral sex and fingers, or with the help of a sex toy such as a clitoral suction (Satisfyer) or different vibrators.
- Self-knowledge. Touching and masturbating, discovering new erogenous zones and the best ways to stimulate your genitals to give you more pleasure. Answering the question of what makes you enjoy it more is the key. Some specific movement, strength, intensity… Practical anatomy class.
- Avoiding worries. Don’t worry too much if it doesn’t come out. Doing so may prevent you from reaching the squirt. So it is important to continue experimenting, trying, feeling and discovering new ways to climax and have more orgasms.
- Information is power. Forget taboos, talk, ask questions and read about the subject to reach squirting.
- It’s a matter of posture. There are certain postures that facilitate the stimulation of the clitoris and the G spot. For example the cowgirl, when she sits on top and takes control of the movements, intensity and depth of penetration while he enjoys the view. Another great example would be many people’s favorite sexual position, on all fours.