Many people during these days of pandemic and recommended social distancing are taking advantage to do things they didn’t do before. Many are in quarantine at home with more free time and living with themselves. What better time to get to know each other better and do all the things you enjoy? A clear example is sexual fantasies.
Almost everyone has their own fantasies. Either because they have seen it on a porn site, tried it and enjoyed it or they have recommended it. But there’s a reason why they say that. How do you know you don’t like it if you haven’t tried it?
So now is a good time to find out about the infinite possibilities of sexual practices that exist. As well as the different and pleasant fantasies that could increase and intensify the pleasure of present and future sexual relations.
What are sexual fantasies?
In most places they are defined as mental representations that somehow stage everything related to desire and pleasure itself.
The truth is that there are many and very diverse, since most things are susceptible to star in an erotic fantasy. It is also something that is very popular because… Who does not like to enjoy making them real? And if not, tell that to the success of “50 Shades of Grey”.
The most popular
During the pandemic the sale of sex toys online has increased considerably, as has the number of views of pornographic and erotic content worldwide. Clitoral suckers, penis massagers, vibrators and many more.
Whether it’s increased leisure time, confinement to the house, boredom, withdrawing from the pandemic situation, releasing stress or anxiety, connecting more with one’s self or self-knowledge, the data is real, people are masturbating more.
But what is the object of all that pleasure that fuels sexual fantasies? There are different types:
- With whom: It can be the sexy mother of a friend or acquaintance (MILF), some ex-partner, a public or famous character, professionals (delivery men, mechanics, nurses, doctors, policemen…). Someone unknown, the neighbour across the street or even someone much older or younger.
- With what: some specific food (strawberries, chocolate, wine…), a type of garment (lingerie, garters…), sex toys (handcuffs, string, vibrators…), some music, a costume, a camera, the telephone or even a good time with an ice cube.
- How: some sexual practice (BDSM, anal, bondage, domination, submission…), different sexual positions ( 69, on all fours, the cowgirl…), even the moment you choose can intensify the pleasure. As well as with the window open so that any neighbour can observe it, or look at oneself directly.
- Where: During quarantine any corner of the house can be a good place, the shower or bathtub, the bed, the kitchen, the sofa… Both alone and accompanied, in a more public or private place, with more or less light… Everything depends on the possibilities and how daring you are.
How to find out which one is your favorite
It is easy to find out what produces that excitement that raises body temperature and triggers those sexual fantasies. You just have to know how to observe and experiment.
The first thing is to look around and notice the details. Then ask yourself what you would do first if you had the opportunity to have sex right now. What is the image that forms in your mind? Try turning it over and giving it more detail as your hands go over every part of your body. Looking for every last corner and focusing on those places that are most sensitive.
You can also take the opportunity to read or even write an erotic story about any sexual encounter. Entering a pornographic website, or even contacting an escort by video call to have sexting in an erotic chat or online sex.
The most important thing is to have intimacy, space alone, be comfortable and relaxed. This is the best way to be able to focus on yourself and get to know yourself better. Once you have identified all your sexual fantasies, you can enjoy them. As well as communicating to make them real or getting better informed about them.
The truth is that it is such a wide world with different levels of intensity. Depending on how daring you are and how you live your sexuality, there are many things that influence the formation and choice of sexual fantasies.
In the case of having a partner, it seems that it is easier to carry them out. But this is not the case for all of them. So whatever you do, the first thing is to identify what gives you the most pleasure. You can take advantage of it and enjoy it.
Especially in the uncertain times the world is going through. In which it seems that everything revolves around the COVID-19. A good time to remember pleasure and all the benefits of sex, to experiment and test the limits of self-satisfaction. So why wait any longer to find out what the best sexual fantasies are?
