Romantic sex or wild sex. Which is better?

What’s the best way to have sex? After a massage, with many preliminaries, an embedder who at any moment that is not expected to give free rein to passion, slowly and calculating every movement, looking into the eyes, caressing every part of the body, fast, looking for depth and intensity, taking of the hair, with kisses, with bite … There are a thousand ways to do it and reach ecstasy.

What is romantic sex? 

At first glance it may seem just that between couples with a stronger bond. But in fact if you look it up on the internet, it’s practically all porn videos. Does that mean that the romance is lost? The answer is simple, no. It’s just that the idea of popular romance is so innocent. It’s practically about candles and chocolates and flowers. But the truth is that it goes much further. It’s about having details, showing affection, caring for the other person and above all pleasing them. But both day and night.

That’s why romantic sex is slower, taking care of every move. It includes many kisses and very long, looks in the eyes and preliminaries. Maybe a striptease, a few kisses on the neck, a thousand caresses all over the body. A consistent test of temptation by postponing penetration. And when it comes, usually in the cowgirl position or with the boy on top allowing to be face to face and very close it is done slowly but intensely. In this way an atmosphere of trust, intimacy and closeness is created 

It’s all about being patient and creating tension by teasing and fiddling. Experience how every touch, look and kiss feels on the body. It is also very important what to do when you finish. Hugging, saying nice things to each other, caressing, kissing… Sound idyllic? It may be.

romantic sex couple

Wild sex, morbidity and fantasy?

Speaking of idyllic, this type of sex is the one that is expected to be exhausted, to sweat, to leave some marks on the skin, but above all a very intense pleasure. That one that stars every wet dream, the ideal one to make any fantasy come true. 

A typical type of sex of an embedder, that one that catches unaware, that you do not wait and in which the most natural and wild self comes to the surface. One in which you let yourself go, grabbing your hair to hold on to during penetration and why not give it a spanking. One in which you can scream with pleasure, tie yourself to the headboard, blindfold, scratch and bite. A little bit of the 50 Shades of Grey. 

The typical posture used is that of a puppy, which allows for speed and intensity. There is no face to face, only daring, dirty words and intensity. A way to demonstrate and satisfy the desire in a very concrete way. A domination role play, without shame or complexes, pure physical, anywhere, as it comes, with few preliminaries. One of those that the next day is remembered by nail marks or not being able to sit down.

wild sex or romantic sex

So, which one is the best?

At first glance they seem like two completely opposite types of sex, although both are very pleasant. But, then, which is better to practice?

The truth is that each has its advantages and disadvantages. It depends a lot on the type of person you are, the fantasies you have and a long etcetera. Even how the day went. That’s why many of the escorts advertised on Skokka offer different types, depending on the experience the person contacting them wants to have.

There are days when you are more sensitive and prefer something more personalized and close. More tenderness and dedication. Others, however, just want you to surprise and satisfy your mood, giving yourself over to pleasure. As long as all the parties involved in the sexual relationship give their consent, almost anything can be tried.

So, the best thing is to try and experiment, to find the balance. Satisfy the wettest dreams and have a casual encounter with your partner or some closer and more intimate stranger or wild and hard. Who knows, maybe you will discover a whole world of unknown pleasure. It’s always good to change, avoid routine and feel wanted and loved by either the partner, a lover, friend, stranger or Skokka advertiser.

In that moment there is only pleasure and letting go. So why wait any longer? You can also start as romantic sex and evolve into wild. Who said they’re incompatible? Exploring the pleasure that one’s own body can feel, knowing and discovering sexuality and the capacity for excitement. To give free rein to passion and sexual desire without complexes or embarrassments. Sex is beautiful, natural, noisy and sweaty, of whatever kind.