Anal sex for beginners

Martina    22 May 2020    Comments Off on Anal sex for beginners

One of the most performed sexual practices in history is anal sex. In spite of all the prejudices that surround it and the taboo that it entails for so many others. Among the things that are said about it, for example, is that only homosexuals do it, that it is an exit hole and even that it is better to do it from the ass because it cancels out the risk of an unwanted pregnancy. There are hundreds of opinions about this. But what is known about this practice?

Origins of anal sex 

When talking about this type of practice, there are many terms to refer to it. The best known and classic is the one already mentioned, anal sex, simple, direct and clear. Another way of calling it is Greek, due to its popularity among the ancient Greeks and their great parties and bacchanals. It is also widely used, sodomy, a term that owes its origin to the Bible. 

There are hundreds of other ways to refer to this practice of stimulating and penetrating the anus. People throughout history have been most creative in this regard. 

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What do you do once you’ve decided you want to have anal sex?

It is an area formed by a set of muscles and with a multitude of nerve endings. This makes it very sensitive. But, what is important to remember is that it is also full of bacteria, after all it is a hole with a very clear objective.

For all this when you start to discover and explore the world of sex from behind, there are several things to consider.

Tips for practicing

  • Communication, decision and relaxation. It is important to be safe and to relax the body so that the whole process is more satisfactory. In addition to good communication and confidence to say how you feel, if it hurts or you want it to continue and how.  
  • Food. In these cases it is advisable to have an empty stomach and not eat for a long time.
  • Hygiene. In order not to have unpleasant surprises, it is better to go to the erotic encounter with the well-cleaned area. For this many men resort to enemas or anal showers.
  • Patience. Especially in the first few times, it is difficult to get in quickly. Moreover, it can be dangerous because it can cause tearing, so take it easy.
  • Stimulation. First try it with a few fingers yourself, at home. With a sex toy such as butt plugs or similar. Even with a black kiss (oral sex in the anus). All to help dilate this area of the body and facilitate penetration. 
  • Lubrication. At the same time, stimulation is very helpful to use fluids that help everything flow better. Such as saliva or lubricants. Especially because unlike the vagina, this specific body part does not have natural lubrication.
  • Safe sex. To avoid any infection or sexually transmitted disease (STI or STD) it is recommended to use a barrier method during anal sex such as a condom. Why? Well, mainly because of the amount of bacteria found, the fluids exchanged and the “ease” of tearing.
  • No mixing. For the same reasons mentioned above, many experts recommend avoiding going from vaginal to anal intercourse or vice versa without first cleaning up thoroughly. 
  • Posture. When making a Greek, position is very important. One that is comfortable and facilitates stimulation and penetration. You can consult the Kamasutra but the most popular are the four-legged or the cowgirl, among others.
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The “Yeses” and “Noes” of the Greek

Anal sex, like so many other sexual practices, can be very pleasurable. Many people around the world practice it every day even though they don’t admit it out loud. That is why it is necessary to remember and demystify it so that no one can be afraid and it can be enjoyed properly, without worry.

  • It’s not a “dirty” practice.
  • It’s not exclusive to homosexuals.
  • The first time doesn’t have to hurt.
  • Men don’t lose their virility or become homosexuals by trying it.
  • No, it doesn’t have to be the same as in the porn scenes.
  • Anal sex can cause orgasms.
  • It does help stimulate the male G-spot.
  • It does help stimulate the male G-spot.
  • Yes, like sex in general, it is good for your health.
  • Yes, it can be done alone.

How do you know if you like it if you haven’t tried it?

Despite all that has been said, heard and seen about this practice it is necessary to look at oneself. If it draws attention and generates curiosity, try it. As far as sexuality is concerned, you have to experience new things to find out how you feel. Test the limits of pleasure that your own body can feel. 

But always taking into account all the information. At home alone, with your partner, lover, friend with rights or with your favourite escort. Practice anal sex with an expert now or with someone who wants to try it too, whatever the gender. If you follow the recommendations above, the pleasure is assured.